It is important to repeatedly dwell upon dreams and desires. This action provides the stepping stone to the development of clear goals to achieve. But while these thoughts are formed, imagined and reflected upon, it is equally important to close them hermetically to doubts and contradictory beliefs about them. Lock the door of the mind against thoughts of what is unwanted in life and harbor only thoughts of positive intentions. Anyone familiar with the law of attraction would understand that ...
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Although it’s true that “every cloud has a silver lining” and that the “glass can be seen as half full”, it is also important to not to be deluded by extreme optimism and thus shy away from the realities of life.

Pessimism has few benefits as it is the main reason why people develop self-sabotages, are low in energy and motivation, and quit their efforts early. Pessimist...

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I have had people coming to me, telling me about their negative self-talk, their timidity, their lack of self-assurance, or their fear of failure. As we work on improving their self-image and self-confidence, they often tell me about their ability to go through exercises and feel good about themselves when at home or in a comfortable area they are familiar with, but a sudden inability...

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Victor Frankl once said "Between stimulus and response, there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom."

The power of choice is a strong one at that and it is available to us at all times. There exist no moments in life when choices are not present, though we may feel certain choices to be more difficult that others. Regardless of which choices we make that bring us into action, the primary choice lies always in the attitude...
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